You are worried about your girl friend whether she is virgin or not? We are providing you sure shot tips by which you can see virginity of a girl.
To check virginity you need to see sign under two heading.
- Signs in breasts
a) breasts of virgin are round in shape, hemispherical, firm in consistency with a underdeveloped nipple in centre surrounded by area of pink colour known as areola in a fair lady, in dark lady it may be black to brown.
- Signs in vagina
a) labia majora are thick, round, firm, elastic with rounded margin in a virgin, they lie in contact with each other so that vaginal orifice is completely closed in a virgin
b) labia minora is a thin fold of skin, small, soft, sensitive and pink coloured in a virgin and covered by labia majora.
c) Fourchette commissure is intact in virgin
d) Clitoris is small pink coloured in virgin and covered by labia majora
e) Hymen is a mucosal covering of about 1mm thickness at the opening of vaginal orifice, this is of different types like, annular, semilunar, cresentic, infantile, fimbriated, tear will come upto vagina in case of coitus, tear may be one side but in fimbriated in around whole margin.
f) Central opening allows the tip of small finger in 10 year old and in adult lady admits only one finger and force should be applied
g) Vagina is tight, narrow with rugosity
True virgin: hymen intact and all signs of virginity are there how ever in False virgin only intact hymen is present.
All of the signs are used to prove virginity of female in medico legal cases
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thanks doc but the problem is that it moves freely but does not move down fully as it is connected or joined with the upper portion by a thin thread like joint just below the opening from where we urinate…plz help
send me picture of your condition by attaching via email to our email address, or you can consult near by local doctor.
Hi..
I want to know that is there any way to detect at what age a girl lost her virginity.
no way
i want to know about safe period. so please help me. and send email.
read our article how to calculate safe period in order to avoid pregnancy.
Hello Sir, I have a querry or confusion rather. I have had sex 5-6 times, but I have never bled but I do feel somewhat pain sometimes when my boyfriend hits me hard. My friends say that I am still virgin..but is it poosible inspite of having sex several times???? If so, what can i do to ‘unvirgin’ myself?
no you are not virgin on the basis of information given by you.
Hi Dr.
I am 28 yr old girl i am virgin.when i was 26 i had boy friend we tried sex 2 times but my boyfriend could not penetrated as it was paining badly.so we stopped. after that we brke up bcoz family problems.
i checked my vagina thers ia no hole. there r 2 holes 1 on left 1 on right side but not in middile.IN middle there is flesh..
i am scared about vagina stucture.though my period are normal.will i will be able to do with my would be husband.???
2) i am 28 still virgin is it not good for health and about pregnancy .will there b problems?
I am very happy to see that your are virgin at 28 years, your husband will be very lucky.
1. there is no need to be scared as your vagina is perfectly normal you are having “septate hymen” which is a type of hymen which contains two holes and a flesh in middle. Hymens can be of many types like annular, semilunar, fimbriated, imperforate, cribriform, septate, elastic and distensible, yes you will be able to do with your would be husband.
2. you should be proud that you are virgin at 28 years, aise ladki milti kahan hai aaj kal, this is excellent, it does not have any relation with your health and pregnancy, no there will not be any problem.
@anika
anika dont worry about that
Thank you soooo much Dr.
Hi..Dr.
is there any cream or gel for girl/guy which is useful for first night so that boy can easily penetrate and girl will have less pains.
If possible send me some more information about fist-night on my email.because i have many doubts like 2 of my friends couldn’t do in first attempt they took 4-5 days for complete penetration and one of my friend she did in 1st attempt.
plz guide…
for this we will reply after 2-3 days.
Dr. Vikram
I thoroughly go through your article and all queries. I found very truthful queries and answers also. Congrats.
Dr. I think a girl of 16 to 21 years of age have hymen that we can test it by inspection. And only Such girl experiences the pains and bleeding during first sexual intercourse OR first time penetration of penis in vagina…AM I RIGHT? I think the girls of above 24 years do not experiences bleeding and pains even they are real virgin…..Please Make criticism positive or negative.
Pain during intercourse is also dependent upon the type of hymen she has, we have described all types of hymen in above comment. Annular type of hymen will have less pain compared to septate and maximum pain will be felt in cribriform hymen. There may be other factors too for pain during coitus, like
1. Vaginal infections eg yeast infection, tricomonas infection
2. Vaginal irritants or allergic reaction to condoms, diaphragm etc.
3. Vaginismus
4. Vaginal Dryness
5. Pelvic Inflammatory disease etc
we think there is no relation with age that 26 year old will not experience pain and bleeding, if she has cribriform hymen, it will happen to her.
In all doctor with with increasing age of girls, the sexual/physical maturity also increase and it make difficult to identify that whether she is virgin or not? This is my assumption…okey let me know that its true of false
plzz plzz replyy asap :’( coz i dnt knw he would be my wouldbe husband or not. i nevr thot ov losing my virginity before mariage..!plz temee how can i knw um still virgin?
so many spelling mistakes, not getting what you want to say, write your question properly, else we will delete your comment
Hi ..Dr.
i am still waiting for your reply..
Thanks for waiting, I will reply you soon, today busy in some parties…
Hello Sneha
Water based lubricants are better to use like Astroglide or K-Y jelly we are giving it first priority, even it will be better to coconut oil, Glycerine.
Other are oestrogen based creams like Evalon, PREMARIN Vaginal Cream, but they have some side effects to you and your partners too.
You can use your saliva as an lubricant, but prolonged use of this also may cause you candida infection, if your immunity is little bit compromised.
hey..!
I am really tensed…me and my bf didnot had sex but he rubbed his penis on my vagina hard…after dat when i washed my vagina i saw some blood on the side!..but also that before this happend i took the menstural bath as they were over and went with him and this happend on the same day ..hope YOu understand now..i am in great tension :’( please help me to let me know i am still virgin or not..reply asap
this much of information is insufficient to tell you, what is the condition of your hymen, we can not say, has it been ruptured, you may be pseudo virgin, why are you worrying, no one will come to know until unless you tell yourself. If your hymen is intact you are virgin. Keep Smiling and enjoy.
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i av made other comment plz chk ..!i will be really thankful to you.
i am really thankfull to you…but i did something weird …i shouted at my bf after washing blood because i got scared and tensed why this happened because to me virginity is the greatest thing,,,and me and my bf did not intended to do that but we had lost senses that time and this happened..so after 3 days when we met again i asked my bf that during rubbing did you released ..and he was like i did :s but outside ..than again i got tensed and i took a pill :s prevention pill, but i am also sure he released outside but i took a pill for safety :s and now after that pill i can feel pain in my back :s plz help me through this…!
and also that i washed blood myself,and u saying you cannot surely say hymen ruptured or not :s but dr it was not too much blood…when i washed vagina on the side there was blood..:s i am also thinking that as my periods had finishd the day before that happened and i took bath the same day so may be due to rubbing some periods blood was there :s but i dont think thats possible…:s uFF please help me .!and please can You also tell what you mean by pseudo virgin ?
reply as soon as possible.
we have explained about pseudo virginity in this article please read the main article, see at the top of this page and read all again carefully. What is the status of your hymen we can not see, it has to be inspected whether ruptured or not, can you tell us what type of hymen you have, or simply go and meet a gynaecologist.
Dr. Yeah! you are right. Thanks a lot to educate me about some concepts.
Dr. can we do sex during menstrual cycle period? i think we cant do it but dr. I wanna know the scientific reason behind it. Plz can you …tel me?
Looking for your positiveness…..
Doctor, pls help me. caz i dnt knw hw to solve this. 3 yrs ago i lost my virginity with my boy friend. now we are broke up and im going to marry a guy from proposal. he is very homly person and believes virginity bleeding is very important to a girl. yes thats true. but im not in that situation. my ex-boy met him and told him that we almost like lived together and had sex several times inorder to break this marrage. 1st he believed this. i said thats not true and i told him that you will get to know in 1st night, caz i love him so much(my husband to be) and i will do any thing for him. he said ok. but still he have the doubt. i can not tell the truth and also cannot say that i lost virtinity, he will leave me. he is waiting till our 1st night to see the bleeding. what can i do nw? im very upset.
hello urane,
do not be in panic, its not necessary that one will bleed while loosing virginity, there is a surgery available known as hymenoplasty, where hymen is re implanted, but not available in India today, mostly done by plastic surgeons, love is very powerful which can hide many bad qualities, those who are in true love do not care about all these things, make him fall in love with you, there is no way by which a non medico can judge whether that particular female is virgin or not, make her read those 8 signs we have described above in this article which clearly says that it is not necessary that one will bleed. Forget about your past, win trust of your husband by trusting him. Success of any married life depends upon your love and trust, say your husband that your ex boy friend is jealous of you, he want to ruin your life do not trust him, your ex boy friend can not prove that you had sex with him, or does he? if yes reply us we will think of some other solution.
hi doc
I m masturbating since age of 11 years due to got involved in bad company and now m 29 and still continue but since 8 year back m suffering from premature ejaculation.i never had sex in my life till.pl tell my would be wife will know about that.will i able to perform my sexual duties and keep my wife happy.my size of penis is also very very small in normal condition and 4.5 inches afer erection.if my will not virgin she will be able to find out about my past. I am getting very depressed.my parents insisting me to got married.please help me out of this i will be thankful to you.
how can you say that you suffer from premature ejaculation? what is your time period, reply me, you may be wrong. Size does not matter, what ever the size it gives full satisfaction, stop thinking about all these nonsense things, go ahead and marry, you will live a successful life.
thanks doc ,my time period hardly 20 seconds ,i never done sex with anybody till now my age is 29,i m masturbating from last 18 years since i was 11 year old ,i feel guilty most of the time that if my would be wife will not virgin(no matter for me) she will not got much pleasure as she got before. Pl tell i m virgin or not and could my premature ejaculation is curable.can u tell me the average time period of a female of orgasm.it is vary in virgin girl and habitual one.
yes there is treatment for premature ejaculation, according to us you might not be suffering from it, just its your thinking + tension which has made you so, be confident, do not think much about it.
dear doc.
Thanks alot for your suggestion,pl tell in the age of 29 i regularly masturbating since i was 11 yrs old ,will it affect my sexual life.i always thinking about sex everytime since childhood,m i suffering from some mental problem or its normal,every girl i know or around me have premarital sexual relationships so feeling of hate for every girls is developed in my mind,i m not able to make up my mind for marriage.pl help me n guide me virginity is important?
You do one thing daily give only 5 minutes in worshiping your father and mother, when ever idea of x strikes your mind, say “stop” in your mind, stop thinking about x every time, go ahead achieve other goals of your life, your married life will be fine. Start eating fruits etc which will rejuvinate you further instead of eating packed food containing preservatives, reduce cold drinks etc. Do it for a week and tell me how you are feeling. For this week you won’t masturb…
if u r a virgin and hve one partner. You loose your virgnity to him. My question is if u live together for a long time will your vaging be tight always n even after birth?
no you can not get that original tightness, but you can improve with kegel exercises, but not upto that natural extent.
hello… i am 24 and still a virgin. I am about to get married and i dont have enough knowledge about sex. And i dont understand why i feel very scared when i think about having sex… wil the pain be unbearable while having sex for the first time??? please help me
do not worry, it will be a bearable pain, but if you get unbearable pain, that may be due to some disease that pain during intercoarse is known as dysparenuea.
ok… but is there any solution if such a problem occurs?? and does dis happen to many people??
yes there is a solution, yes it can occur to any one, do not take tensions, keep smilling, Bye.
hi doc , i had sex around 10 times but still my foreskin is still not coming back of my shaft , sometimes when i have intercourse my foreskin some and stuff behind the head of the penis and paining me a lot , pls advise.
jeeva
Hello Jeeva,
you might be suffering from phimosis, a condition in which person is not able to retract his foreskin on penis shaft, it is a surgical condition, please visit a surgeon, so that he can inspect it or either you can make a small video of the skin where you try to retract it and send us at our email, what is phimosis you can see in video form here
hi doc
im alia. i really have a bad scene which i cant say over here jus i want to know is it posible dat if a girl is having sex first time nd there wont b bleeding from vagina.
yes this is possible.
im not virgin i had sex around 30 to 50 times with my bf 1st time it was in 2004
he is no longer my bf i want to marry another boy i bleed at very 1st time when i had sex with him and it was very painfull too it was very difficult for him to come in me.
now my vigina size is too big and i know i will not bleed wen it wil be 1st night of my marriage
can u pls sugges me if my husband will ask me u r not virgin ” i cant tel him that i am not i want to tell him yes aim virgin otherwise he will leave me
can u tell me pls if he will know that im not virgin ? or i can tel him that my size was getting bigger bcz i was using toys’
is it posiibile? to lie him
bcz im 25 now and want to marry with a boy am too much upset bcz of that situation pls pls pls reply me i m thinking tht i had lost everything and no body will marry me pls reply me immidiatly at my email plss
do not worry, he will not come to know until unless you tell him, you can also go for hymenoplasty surgery just one week before your marriage, so that you can get false hymen. There is no need to tell the truth, because he will not come to know until you disclose yourself.
im very use too of sex even if i have sex in a month than only i will having periods ( Menses) i m not yet married what can i do?
and im periods only 4 2 days after a month not for 5-6 days can u tel me is there any problem to be pregnant after marry? bcz of periods short time?
and if im having sex i have to much water coming from my vigina
is it a desease?
i am newly married man,at the first night when i insert a finger in my wife’s vagina it gone easily and i felt she is not virgin and blood did not came out.when i rub her vagina i feel its open and i can feel the gap between..i asked but she refused that she is virgin and she didnt sleep with anyone.she took a swair and everything but still i dont trust her.
can you tell me is it true or not.
Mr Mohan Pyare, what is this? you people can not live with love, whether she is virgin or not what will you do with that, how can you find out and what will you get after knowing, “shak ki koi daba nahi hoti” and it ruins a good family life. Go and love her and live your life happily instead of thinking these nonsense things. You can not change the past, think about future, god has given you such a nice person in your life. If you can believe & respect your mother than why not wife.
please doctor vikram tell me help…i know now i cant do anything and i cant break up…
but i just wanna know
Hi,
mine is same case as urane but my husband would be is doctor, what do i do? help me
Do not talk to him about your virginity until he asks you something, if he asks say him truth that you are not virgin. And promise him to be “truthful and honest to him”. He will forgive and forget your past if he is a good hearted person.
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my age is 25 and its only tranpatent it have no color u can say white but it have no smell
thnx alot Dr. apne meri life ki sab se bari problem solve kar di i have lots of prayers for u now i m satisfied thanks thanks thanks alot
God Bless u forever…….
i could not ask any body in my entire life thank God i found you…..
you are always welcome, we are here to help you, do not forget to tell your friends or family members about this website, where your problem was solved, thanks a lot for praying for us, God Bless You.
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i m 25 and it i have no pain no smell in it it have no color u can say transparent is it lucoria ? or what?
hello mia
do you have any back ache problems or itching or irritation in your private parts, there is no harm if you visit a gynaecologist for once, because i can not see you here and cannot examine you, so go and get your examination done with a gyneacologist, it will be better to find out if any disease you have.
Hello Dr Vikram
how r u doing?hope all is well. i am in a problem regarding my first sex with my girl friend.she is a virgin and had not been before with any one.we had some question please please help us out
Q1.by using condom does the probabilty of pregnant effects?
Q2.after sex does the periods(menses) will be effected?means it will happen normally?
Q3.after sex the figure of my girl friend changes or remain same?
Q4.please guide us more about using viagra or other medicine?
Q5.more info please.
answers
1. yes
2. yes
3. it remains same, it is maintained by exercises, if get pregnant, obviously figure changes.
4. do not take any medicine without consulting a specialist
5. Read whole of article for more information, you can also read other articles on this site.
Doctor is there any chance to a break hymen during menstrual cycle (due to heavy and large flow of bleed)? Because sometimes female faces very & very harmful pains during menstrual cycle.
pls can your provide digram or pictures of all types of hymen?
looking for your kind advice
no this is not seen till date, yes we will write a new post regarding all types of hymen.
hello doctor, tell I am in the age of 26 i regularly masturbating since i was 13 yrs old ,will it affect my sexual life.i always thinking about sex everytime since childhood,m i suffering from some mental problem or its normal,every girl i know or around me have premarital sexual relationships so feeling of hate for every girls is developed in my mind,i m not able to make up my mind for marriage.pl help me n guide me virginity is important?
And secondly i have ejaculated with in 20 seconds. what shold i do?
do not hate them, what about you? are u pure? think of situation “agar aap ko mauka milta to nahe karte kya” unko mauka mila to kiya, just like you cannot control masturbation, they were not able to do so in their act. you ejaculate in 20 seconds, seems to be premature ejaculation, but other things are also associated with it, it is also seen in unconfident persons, or who thinks more about it… wait for few days we are going to write a post on premature ejaculation and their solution with in this week only.
hello doc,i broke my virginity 3yrs back for 1 year i was in close relationship with my BF then my BF passed out n we are in long distance relation ship………i understood being with him that i was masturbating since childhood n i never realized……………….rite now we have trouble relationship n i can get marry to a medico as i m a doctor too my age rite now is 25 yrs………plz help me tackle situation…….i do not have any of these above signs….
You won’t have sign ” this is not possible” something will be there surely, but since you think there are no signs then why are you worried? I think “vishwas” is a factor for success of your marriage life, if your husband will be intelligent he will not digg your past, what he will get out of that “tensions” so better to start a new life instead of thinking all these rubbish things. “there are lot of things to achieve in life” go ahead and enjoy your life.
thanks doc …………i dont know when with whom i ‘ll get marry……….but this answer show me wat shud i not think of………..one more thing is masturbating a wrong process………..bcz sumtimes i cannot control my senses…………i started sleeping with my parents so that it automatically stops me.i feel as if i m mentally sick after doing it ….but when the next time cums its i again hav to feelthe same…i read in one of the above answer of urs its solution but is it bad?n when we will say its in excess.
well you should read our latest post 8 reasons why you should stop masturbation to get your answer, do not forget to read what is masturbation addiction there.
hi doc, i have a girlfriend nd i love her alot. we hve nt done sex yet bt i had seen her naked.. as i want to ask dat her breast is very soft nd nipples are also very soft does it shows she is nt virgin,??? but her whole body skin is also very soft.. plz doc give me correct suggestion is she virgin or not???
i think you have not read the article fully or with full concentration, forget about thinking all these things and concentrate on love, what will you get after knowing whether she is virgin or not only “tensions”, so as to prove examination by expert is required, your description can not tell the way expert feel.
plz doc reply fast
sir plz clear my prblm.
sir i love her n i wil love her always.. bt i just want to knw da truth.. plz ans one question: can a virgin grl hve vry soft breast nd nipples ??? plz ans sir plz..
my age is 23 i m suffering from premature ejeculation..my time period is hardly 10 seconds…plz doctor tell me the treatment
is it intravaginal ejaculation time? or masturbation ejaculation time? in this world 75% of men ejaculate within 10 minutes of penetration, on an average 2 minutes is taken to be normal, there are various factors related to it like depression, stress over financial matters, smoking, unrealistic expectations about performance, overall lack of confidence.
Treatment: go and visit a psychiatrist, who will help you to boost confidence, and you can perform Kegel Exercises, which help men achieve stronger erections and gain greater control over ejaculation. But you must consult a doctor so that he can examine you and then will give you prescribed treatment. Do not waste your money or time in visiting quacks visit a qualified doctor preferably psychiatrist.
its intravaginal time..n i m not a smoker, not a depression patient
hi doc
i am sona,i had sex with bf several times in past and 28 now as per your info of 8 steps
i have nipple bulged and 1 cms top of breast with little hanging even after teighter bras
i am due for marrige and virgin issue with nipple size, i am worried pl help me
Dr. when will you add pictures of different types of hymen?
Dear honest guy, we have written the post, but we made it private, you can see all types of hymen gallery at healthystrokes.com
dear doc how are you?i have ask you the question but i didnt get it untill now…
please asnwer me….newly i got married at the first night when me and my wife was doing…i inserted my finger in her……i felt she is not vergine coz it was split…..i asked to my wife but she answered and took a lots of sware and said not i am virgin.and when we started to do she had no feeling
tell me what is the truth was she virgin or not…i will be waiting for your answer since long please answer me.
information is very less, we can not comment on what you saw or felt, examinations are required to prove virginity under consent of person or magistrate of city, LOVE and RELATIONSHIP are quite bigger than all these things, think about your future and go ahead instead of thinking about it, past can not give you any thing except tension, enjoy your bright future. Good LUCK.
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thank you for your kind respond….yeah i am agreed to you but i just wanna know thats it so please tell me
at this stage you can not know it whether she was virgin at that time or not? because she is married to you and you also have done inter****** with her, she is unvirgin now.
i know doc…….i am telling you evrything on the base of my first time with her….you can tell me….
you please just asnwer me what i am mentioning sir…..its realy need to know please requesting you….badi meharbani hogi aapki.
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